"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help me out with a cd

ValleyDJing

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Hey guys...I'm making a cd for a friend of mine who's had it pretty rough. I want some songs that are kinda sad, but have a uplifting undertone to em you know? Like songs that talk about how tough life is, but like keep your head up type of thing. For example Live in the Sky by T.I. and Jaime Foxx. Preferably hiphop or r&b style music. Anybody got good ideas? Songs that get you through hard times.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tupac - Changes
Tupac - My Block (REMIX)
Fort Minor -Where'd You Go
Stabilo - Everybody

Those songs are the ones that helped me when life was down.
 
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