“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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devilkingx2

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I've always pondered if i was good looking or not, i really have no idea.

https://imgur.com/a/rRxZn

Don't worry guys I'm not sensitive, i won't cry for longer than 15-30 minutes tops if your honest opinion is low :p
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You look fine, don't know about those expressions though. Guess you're just trying to pose to look good in pictures, but it doesn't look good. It's roughly the same expression I make when trying to look good in pictures, I don't like it. I look best when I don't try to pose.
 

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You look fine, don't know about those expressions though. Guess you're just trying to pose to look good in pictures, but it doesn't look good. It's roughly the same expression I make when trying to look good in pictures, I don't like it. I look best when I don't try to pose.
Haha yeah, poses are hard, takes a million tries to get one that looks passable.

I do like the wink in the first pic, the one where I'm putting my hand behind my friend's head, and the one where I'm with the girl in the dark. Those are great imo
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You're a well put together guy don't worry about it you got more than enough to pimp with.

Based on looks I'd say that with a bit of game you could land an 8 easily enough.

I guess if you work really hard maybe a 9 but be warned she will do your head in.
 

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You are quite fetching. I agree that you would look better if you were not posing.
 
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I honestly have no idea. I'm pretty clueless as to what makes a guy physically attractive to girls.

Perhaps you might be an 8 to one girl and a 1 to the next.

But it wouldn't surprise me if you get more matches on OLD than I do.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Neat buzzcut. You’d be looking sharp but the winking expression seems too tryhard to me, if you’re trying to get a pic for OLD a normal smile is far better.
 

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I agree with the others. A buzz cut with a beat line up would do you great.
I recommend these documentaries and TED talk:




 

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I'll check out the third one first since it's the shortest
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would say fix your style a bit too. Those plaid shirts are aweful. Also hit some shoulder and back workout to broaden your stance a bit.

And second what others said, quit it with the goofy look.
 

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Wait what? How?
Just not good colors for your complexion and the style looks like you got them at a second hand store. Old navy has better ones for cheap. You should always roll up the sleeves just below your elbow unless wearing a jacket. And the styles conflict. Plaid are casual or rugged and you have them mixed with a semi casual look. It's like wearing tennis shoes when going out or wearing a t shirt with slacks.

Also, I would aim for more bold colors. And wear them with jeans and casual boots. To put it simply, it looks like your mom picked your clothes. I don't know how to explain it...

I looked again. Definitely add some more color to your wardrobe, reds yellows and greens. I don't mean to sound racist, but being black gives you a wide option for colors you can wear, use it. My skin has a reddish hue so I can't wear certain reds and greens
 

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Ma nigga ma nigga ma nigga

I knew there was a reason we liked each other.

Anyway, now to business. You look like a square, I would holla at you to do my homework. In one pic you have a double chin, gym is friend in this situation.

No, you're not ugly, you're not Tyrese Beckford either.

Pic with shirt tucked in - mega nerdy. Open shirts,un-tucked are your friend. You tuck a shirt in you best have a belt on and you better not fvcking tuck a checkered shirt in, ever.

Hair is on point, I'd consider lower on top, high top is too much of a statemate and will either look Calrton or Will, in this case you look Carlton.

Stop smiling, mean mug, practice it, like trainwreck said you look too nice.

Verdict: Shorter hair, sharper cut, less smiles, lose the chubby face, more awareness on dress sense.

Good news = all of this can be changed, easily, quickly.

Godspeed.
 

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Try getting some diamond earrings! They can really help. I was considered a nerd too but when I got my ears pierced it helped destroy that image. They’re not expensive and it doesn’t hurt.

Grow out a beard if you can. Bytches love beards.

Personally I’d cut the flat top, but that’s just my personal preference. I feel like people assume you’re a nerd if you have that cut. I’m a waver myself, but if you like your hair long maybe get some curls instead?
 
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