"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pozitron

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Wow.. I see a lot of activity on this forum.. not bad.. kind of crowded though.
OK so this is about the situation I am in with my gf.
We're together for like almost 2 months. We see each-other at school everyday. People know about us.
However, I feel like I'm not doing the right thing or enough here. You know how friends are.. they make jokes and stuff about us not being too physical. I never kissed her with tongue till now. She hasn't done it till now, I haven't done it till now.. I don't know what to do..

I don't know how to advance things.. and how to make that transition.
What do you think? I really need some help.. if you need to know anything ask.
Thanks.. you know how it goes.. you go from 0 to hero..I'm on the road but I've hit a roadblock.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pozitron

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Wtf man? I dont' know what to do. I never fuc**** done it before. I never gone past any of those things. How the he** am I supposed to know and be all good with it in front of smne like my gf?
It's nice you're great but this is for real. I know I can make my own problems but it's not one of them
 
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NorwegianDJ

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Neither had any of us when we went there for the first time either. You dont need people to guide you everywhere you go. Everytime I answer you, Im in fear that Im just fueling the next question.

You know what Ive been telling you over fb the past 2 months. I still stand by that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I cant imagine dating a girl for two months and not having sex with her, at least with who I am now. Have you even tried to get her shirt or pants off?

Trying is the first step. Man up.
 
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Pozitron

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It's everyone on their own.. it always has been and it always will be like this.
 
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So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pozitron said:
So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
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No. What people are saying is that they have given all the advice you need in your situation! But you refuse to hear it.

But since you do not take advice, you must learn for yourself. It's the only thing left to you. You're only on your own because you made it that way.
 
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You've been on the forum long enough to have 247 posts and you have been dating a girl for two months and just now got a tongue kiss? Man up
 
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Do you think in the animal kingdom any males need to read a forum to get. it. done.

You are hard wired for this. Your where born for it. Trust your instincts.


... When you TRY and f*ck up is when you come back here to learn.
 
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