"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow.. I see a lot of activity on this forum.. not bad.. kind of crowded though.
OK so this is about the situation I am in with my gf.
We're together for like almost 2 months. We see each-other at school everyday. People know about us.
However, I feel like I'm not doing the right thing or enough here. You know how friends are.. they make jokes and stuff about us not being too physical. I never kissed her with tongue till now. She hasn't done it till now, I haven't done it till now.. I don't know what to do..

I don't know how to advance things.. and how to make that transition.
What do you think? I really need some help.. if you need to know anything ask.
Thanks.. you know how it goes.. you go from 0 to hero..I'm on the road but I've hit a roadblock.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wtf man? I dont' know what to do. I never fuc**** done it before. I never gone past any of those things. How the he** am I supposed to know and be all good with it in front of smne like my gf?
It's nice you're great but this is for real. I know I can make my own problems but it's not one of them
 
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Neither had any of us when we went there for the first time either. You dont need people to guide you everywhere you go. Everytime I answer you, Im in fear that Im just fueling the next question.

You know what Ive been telling you over fb the past 2 months. I still stand by that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I cant imagine dating a girl for two months and not having sex with her, at least with who I am now. Have you even tried to get her shirt or pants off?

Trying is the first step. Man up.
 
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It's everyone on their own.. it always has been and it always will be like this.
 
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So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pozitron said:
So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
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No. What people are saying is that they have given all the advice you need in your situation! But you refuse to hear it.

But since you do not take advice, you must learn for yourself. It's the only thing left to you. You're only on your own because you made it that way.
 
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You've been on the forum long enough to have 247 posts and you have been dating a girl for two months and just now got a tongue kiss? Man up
 
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Do you think in the animal kingdom any males need to read a forum to get. it. done.

You are hard wired for this. Your where born for it. Trust your instincts.


... When you TRY and f*ck up is when you come back here to learn.
 
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