"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help me out guys

Pozitron

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Wow.. I see a lot of activity on this forum.. not bad.. kind of crowded though.
OK so this is about the situation I am in with my gf.
We're together for like almost 2 months. We see each-other at school everyday. People know about us.
However, I feel like I'm not doing the right thing or enough here. You know how friends are.. they make jokes and stuff about us not being too physical. I never kissed her with tongue till now. She hasn't done it till now, I haven't done it till now.. I don't know what to do..

I don't know how to advance things.. and how to make that transition.
What do you think? I really need some help.. if you need to know anything ask.
Thanks.. you know how it goes.. you go from 0 to hero..I'm on the road but I've hit a roadblock.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pozitron

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Wtf man? I dont' know what to do. I never fuc**** done it before. I never gone past any of those things. How the he** am I supposed to know and be all good with it in front of smne like my gf?
It's nice you're great but this is for real. I know I can make my own problems but it's not one of them
 

NorwegianDJ

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Neither had any of us when we went there for the first time either. You dont need people to guide you everywhere you go. Everytime I answer you, Im in fear that Im just fueling the next question.

You know what Ive been telling you over fb the past 2 months. I still stand by that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LearningSlowly

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I cant imagine dating a girl for two months and not having sex with her, at least with who I am now. Have you even tried to get her shirt or pants off?

Trying is the first step. Man up.
 

Pozitron

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It's everyone on their own.. it always has been and it always will be like this.
 

Pozitron

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So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tortendieb

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Pozitron said:
So you're right on some lvl guys.. everyone must deal with its problems... I will deal with mine.. good luck with yours
No. What people are saying is that they have given all the advice you need in your situation! But you refuse to hear it.

But since you do not take advice, you must learn for yourself. It's the only thing left to you. You're only on your own because you made it that way.
 

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You've been on the forum long enough to have 247 posts and you have been dating a girl for two months and just now got a tongue kiss? Man up
 

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Do you think in the animal kingdom any males need to read a forum to get. it. done.

You are hard wired for this. Your where born for it. Trust your instincts.


... When you TRY and f*ck up is when you come back here to learn.
 
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