"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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help me on my ten day challenge :) fvuck me up! lol

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I FINALLY DID IT! I NUMBER CLOSED MY DREAM GIRL!!! BUT!!!!!! :DD
shes doesnt seem so special anymore, cuz Im not an Afc anymore, im not a pua yet too im in transition, but all i nee help with now is where to take her out on a date?? I want to take her out to a place other than movie theatres and restaurants... I want something where we can talk and connect. any ideas??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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What the **** is this **** you ****ing faggot piece of ****. Grab your balls and **** the ***** already, you ****ing ***** ass *****. God damnit, you're such a ****ing douchebag faggot ****ing ****er ***** ass faggot mother ****er ****ing faggot ***** ass *****. **** you you ****ing *****.
 

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lol dude the challenge is over... no need to get all excited... haha. all i need now are date ideas
 

eaglez1177

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Hahahahha
 

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eh...you pretty much pissed everyone off...

what did i tell ya, your challenge was pointless...you shoulda just number closed in the beginning...these cold approaches don't fix the problems you had/have...cold approaching is easy because you don't know the people and have absolutely nothing to consider..you just do it...

date ideas...use the search tool...it's been asked many times..even by me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it wasnt useless!!!!! it helped me sooo friggin much!!! how do u think i number closed this girl?? this girl wouldnt even look at me, approached soo many girls and njmberclosed soo many other girls, and became so much more alpha, and getting a social circle a friggin life! that i was able to number close her! and if i pissed u off sorry but it never was pointless
 

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Mad props, i had a similar situation a year ago and never talked to her more than once or twice, never flirted or got her number or anything. So good work, i can respect that lol.

Of course, since then i've changed almost completely, thanks in part to pickup.
 

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Exhumed said:
Mad props, i had a similar situation a year ago and never talked to her more than once or twice, never flirted or got her number or anything. So good work, i can respect that lol.

Of course, since then i've changed almost completely, thanks in part to pickup.
thx brah, dude ive been through soo much ****, the thing with this girl was that at first I was attracted to her and I was an AFC so I mistook this as Love. I saw her as the perfect girl, by this point i hadnt even talked to her, never had the balls to,anyways I had the total wrong midset, I finally got the balls to ask this girlto talk to me in private for a minute, to come with me to an empty piano room, have no idea why lol kinda got rlly nervous being around her, directly like that, got rejected lol, then I went into a 1day emotional rollercoaster, it was my first time being rejected, and specially by the girl who I thought I loved, that night I got angry at myself, I was dissapointed, I was sad as ****, all the dreams I had about this girl, such as cuddling with her and some romantic ****, the thought that this **** would all never come true almost made me cry, and I finally ended up Crying!! And as quincidence would have it, that day I had the worst fever Ive ever had in my whole life i was exhausted as ****. so basically i was both a physical and emotional wreck. but after that night something changed as my fever got better i started to feel better too, as if there was a less of a burden on me, It kinda felt good to feel free, but somehow i didnt want to feel free. anyways I said **** it, I said **** the world, and finally i Realised Ive had the wrong mindset all this time and love had gotten in my way and turned me into an AFC. so the next morning i didnt give a **** about her anymore, I wasnt even angry i just didnt give a **** right. And I started acting alpha which believe it or not, Im becoming more alpha by the day, im also goodlooking, so i started flirting with every girl i saw,btw i think i forgot to mention lol this took place in a school conference where 120 delegates from around the world had come, anyways i started behaving alpha and she saw that i can get other girls, I think I had reached one of the highest points of my alphaness so far, so I number closed 12 other girls, including her bestfriend. and everywhere i walked I had 3 girls following me around, not neccesarily beautiful, btw im rlly good in ****yFunny, one thing that has helped me. and in the end she saw all of this, and then i heard one of my friends asked her what she thought about me and she thought i was cute, even after ****ing up and getting rejected the night before. But I see her now soo differentley Ive brocken my one-itis. Ive woken up lol :D the alphamale in me has woken up. she doesnt seem such a big deal no more, and finally I asked her if she wanted to get together, not nervous anymore, she said maybe, then i asked for her number, she gave it to me, and while i was putting it in, she made the comment Nice lol, so we hugged and i said goodbye. and done! CLOSED, but i was dissapointed in myself for making it such a big deal, cuz in reality it was nuttin
 

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Wow. You cried because you got denied a number.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wow. You cried because you got denied a number.
not cuz i got denied a number cuz I thought she would see me as a creepy freak and that i basically ****ed it up...but yeh I dont give a fcuk anymore, and right now the only reason why im tellin u guys this **** is too empty myself soo if u think im pathetic or sumthin you can go **** urself. cuz i juz dont give a fcuk
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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