As a woman, I can say with certainty it was a bog standard shyt test. In your language, a compliance test, women employ them too. XdThis plate lives 100+ miles away. She was near me on an afternoon OLD date with another dude and stopped by afterward (no she didn't bang him). I convinced her to stay the night and bang, we had a great time together. I believe this is a no-no but we have each talked about our other's dates and recent experiences with dating and sex . We both agreed we are not exclusive and that any LTR possibilities are slim due to the distance. I know I should keep things light and funny, but I don't want to outright decieve and I haven't figured out how to be mysterious and aloof without being deceptive yet.
Anyway she texts me this on the way home.
"If we were closer and had other circumstances, I would date you in a heartbeat. I feel like I can talk to you about anything and I love it. You are amazing and whoever steals your heart is going to be a lucky lady, so keep looking she is out there for you."
She's shown signs of low interest and said similar things in the past. I suppose it's quite possible I won't hear from her again, but I've seen more than once that a woman's actions do not always align with her words.
I texted back " I enjoyed our time together. A lot. It's unfortunate that we live so far away from each other."
I'm not super concerned about losing this plate, My thought is not to reach out at all unless I hear back from her but I'd appreciate any observation or advice about the situation. I'm still only a few months in to this and am learning a lot with each new date.
Dont fall for it, leave her be, she will be back, guaranteed!