"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Help me game this new cutie at work

Incognito72

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So there's this new girl at my work I'd like to game (really cute face, nice big tits). I've only worked with her a couple of times, and of those times I really only interacted with her one day.

But I still tried to make the best of things, and started chatting her up. My initial impression of her is that she's kinda shy, definitely doesn't have a assertive personality. She started to slowly ask me questions about myself (I'm taking this as she's a bit curious bout me).

Did a bit of kino with her, touching the small of her back when I'm showing her stuff. Teasing her a little bit (mostly about her storing items in her cleavage, lol).

Didn't go for the number since when I left she was still working, but I'll see her again in a few days so nothing lost really.

So yeah, give me a few pointers guys. Oh, and don't worry about the job, it's only temporary. I don't plan to work there for more than a year. And it's a restaurant anyways, people are always hooking up in restaurants.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
 

Incognito72

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Alle_Gory said:
Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
it's not a serious job, it's at a restaurant (I think I stated that). To be honest people have hooked up there before without incident (a couple of the guys that used to work there have hooked up with several of the girls there). So no, not worried about the job.
 

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I think you are doing a pretty good job there already mate. since you already broke the ice wall, I think it's not that difficult for you to put your phone on her hand next time you chat with her. You can do it! :D that's it mate, simple and get the job done.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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