"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help me game this new cutie at work

Incognito72

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So there's this new girl at my work I'd like to game (really cute face, nice big tits). I've only worked with her a couple of times, and of those times I really only interacted with her one day.

But I still tried to make the best of things, and started chatting her up. My initial impression of her is that she's kinda shy, definitely doesn't have a assertive personality. She started to slowly ask me questions about myself (I'm taking this as she's a bit curious bout me).

Did a bit of kino with her, touching the small of her back when I'm showing her stuff. Teasing her a little bit (mostly about her storing items in her cleavage, lol).

Didn't go for the number since when I left she was still working, but I'll see her again in a few days so nothing lost really.

So yeah, give me a few pointers guys. Oh, and don't worry about the job, it's only temporary. I don't plan to work there for more than a year. And it's a restaurant anyways, people are always hooking up in restaurants.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory

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Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
 

Incognito72

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Alle_Gory said:
Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
it's not a serious job, it's at a restaurant (I think I stated that). To be honest people have hooked up there before without incident (a couple of the guys that used to work there have hooked up with several of the girls there). So no, not worried about the job.
 

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I think you are doing a pretty good job there already mate. since you already broke the ice wall, I think it's not that difficult for you to put your phone on her hand next time you chat with her. You can do it! :D that's it mate, simple and get the job done.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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