"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help me game this new cutie at work

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Incognito72

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So there's this new girl at my work I'd like to game (really cute face, nice big tits). I've only worked with her a couple of times, and of those times I really only interacted with her one day.

But I still tried to make the best of things, and started chatting her up. My initial impression of her is that she's kinda shy, definitely doesn't have a assertive personality. She started to slowly ask me questions about myself (I'm taking this as she's a bit curious bout me).

Did a bit of kino with her, touching the small of her back when I'm showing her stuff. Teasing her a little bit (mostly about her storing items in her cleavage, lol).

Didn't go for the number since when I left she was still working, but I'll see her again in a few days so nothing lost really.

So yeah, give me a few pointers guys. Oh, and don't worry about the job, it's only temporary. I don't plan to work there for more than a year. And it's a restaurant anyways, people are always hooking up in restaurants.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
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it's not a serious job, it's at a restaurant (I think I stated that). To be honest people have hooked up there before without incident (a couple of the guys that used to work there have hooked up with several of the girls there). So no, not worried about the job.
 
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I think you are doing a pretty good job there already mate. since you already broke the ice wall, I think it's not that difficult for you to put your phone on her hand next time you chat with her. You can do it! :D that's it mate, simple and get the job done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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