"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me game this new cutie at work

Incognito72

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So there's this new girl at my work I'd like to game (really cute face, nice big tits). I've only worked with her a couple of times, and of those times I really only interacted with her one day.

But I still tried to make the best of things, and started chatting her up. My initial impression of her is that she's kinda shy, definitely doesn't have a assertive personality. She started to slowly ask me questions about myself (I'm taking this as she's a bit curious bout me).

Did a bit of kino with her, touching the small of her back when I'm showing her stuff. Teasing her a little bit (mostly about her storing items in her cleavage, lol).

Didn't go for the number since when I left she was still working, but I'll see her again in a few days so nothing lost really.

So yeah, give me a few pointers guys. Oh, and don't worry about the job, it's only temporary. I don't plan to work there for more than a year. And it's a restaurant anyways, people are always hooking up in restaurants.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alle_Gory

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Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
 

Incognito72

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Alle_Gory said:
Rule of thumb is, if a serious job then don't game at work, unless she's in a different department far away from your people. If it's just some part time stuff then who gives a damn.
it's not a serious job, it's at a restaurant (I think I stated that). To be honest people have hooked up there before without incident (a couple of the guys that used to work there have hooked up with several of the girls there). So no, not worried about the job.
 

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I think you are doing a pretty good job there already mate. since you already broke the ice wall, I think it's not that difficult for you to put your phone on her hand next time you chat with her. You can do it! :D that's it mate, simple and get the job done.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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