HumbleNinja
Banned
What's the shelf life on a 44yo man and 24yo chick? Help me DJ's. I'm having an AFC meltdown..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Help me DJs! 44yo virgin having an AFC crisis!
- Thread starter HumbleNinja
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
cervantesscthree
Don Juan
Run game on her regardless, Fvck age.
Imagine you have 100 women waiting for you back home? How would you behave around her? What would you say to her? How would you msg her? Would you care about you say? The AFC in you tries to hide the fact that yr offering her c***, the alpha doesn't care because that's what men do. Think like that and it should help the AFC meltdown, other than that, keep meeting these girls, and keep improving. Granted you stick to it the AFC in you should sink down to the bottom of yr feet
Imagine you have 100 women waiting for you back home? How would you behave around her? What would you say to her? How would you msg her? Would you care about you say? The AFC in you tries to hide the fact that yr offering her c***, the alpha doesn't care because that's what men do. Think like that and it should help the AFC meltdown, other than that, keep meeting these girls, and keep improving. Granted you stick to it the AFC in you should sink down to the bottom of yr feet
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
depends on how much candy you got for her. - sugardaddy 
jafyk
Master Don Juan
To the OP. Are you a 44 year old virgin? If you are I can't even begin to wrap my head around it. At this stage I would just say go pay for h0 and get it over with then you can start trying to figure out all this DJ stuff.
DarkDetective50
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:jafyk said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HumbleNinja
Banned
Purefilth said:depends on how much candy you got for her. - sugardaddy
And some here say the mods don't care. I knew you'd prove otherwise!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hahaha made my day xDuser name said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Well, if he's not a virgin then he should have chosen the title of his thread wisely. My initial comment wasn't intended to make fun of the OP just an honest comment. Most times the end to game is s3x and the means to that end is dating and all this things we are learning here. I just feel that once he's gotten the "I've never done it before" out of his system then he can focus on the advanced stuff such as inner game, having a family or steady girls etc.user name said:
To the OP it was brave of you to post. I lost my V-card at 24. Compared to some of these young guys here I'm a real late bloomer, lol. So, paying for a h0e would be your quickest route.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Go ghost, spin plates!
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Lol roll breadHumbleNinja said:
HumbleNinja
Banned
Is my princess in another castle?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HumbleNinja
Banned
lanba said:
But she told me she loved me on christmas day no less.
She brought out the raging AFC in me.
JohnChops
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shes suckin bowsers d1ck! :nervous:HumbleNinja said:
HumbleNinja
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:nervous:JohnChops said:
I will SPIN MORE PLATES and use women to boost my shattered self-esteem!
On the real nothings wrong. Just testing the So Suave AFC Emergency Response System.
Still seeing the chick and going out with her next Saturday. #44yoWINNING.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.