"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me DJs! 44yo virgin having an AFC crisis!

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What's the shelf life on a 44yo man and 24yo chick? Help me DJ's. I'm having an AFC meltdown..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Run game on her regardless, Fvck age.

Imagine you have 100 women waiting for you back home? How would you behave around her? What would you say to her? How would you msg her? Would you care about you say? The AFC in you tries to hide the fact that yr offering her c***, the alpha doesn't care because that's what men do. Think like that and it should help the AFC meltdown, other than that, keep meeting these girls, and keep improving. Granted you stick to it the AFC in you should sink down to the bottom of yr feet
 
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depends on how much candy you got for her. - sugardaddy ;)
 
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To the OP. Are you a 44 year old virgin? If you are I can't even begin to wrap my head around it. At this stage I would just say go pay for h0 and get it over with then you can start trying to figure out all this DJ stuff.
 
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To the OP. Are you a 44 year old virgin? If you are I can't even begin to wrap my head around it. At this stage I would just say go pay for h0 and get it over with then you can start trying to figure out all this DJ stuff.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He's not a vir.......ahh sh!t, I'm wasting one of my ten posts. Damn it!!!!!!
 
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To the OP. Are you a 44 year old virgin? If you are I can't even begin to wrap my head around it. At this stage I would just say go pay for h0 and get it over with then you can start trying to figure out all this DJ stuff.
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no, he's not a virgin. he's had sex 5 times previously.
 
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no, he's not a virgin. he's had sex 5 times previously.
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Hahaha made my day xD
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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no, he's not a virgin. he's had sex 5 times previously.
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Well, if he's not a virgin then he should have chosen the title of his thread wisely. My initial comment wasn't intended to make fun of the OP just an honest comment. Most times the end to game is s3x and the means to that end is dating and all this things we are learning here. I just feel that once he's gotten the "I've never done it before" out of his system then he can focus on the advanced stuff such as inner game, having a family or steady girls etc.

To the OP it was brave of you to post. I lost my V-card at 24. Compared to some of these young guys here I'm a real late bloomer, lol. So, paying for a h0e would be your quickest route.
 
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jafyk said:
Well, if he's not a virgin then he should have chosen the title of his thread wisely. My initial comment wasn't intended to make fun of the OP just an honest comment. Most times the end to game is s3x and the means to that end is dating and all this things we are learning here. I just feel that once he's gotten the "I've never done it before" out of his system then he can focus on the advanced stuff such as inner game, having a family or steady girls etc.

To the OP it was brave of you to post. I lost my V-card at 24. Compared to some of these young guys here I'm a real late bloomer, lol. So, paying for a h0e would be your quickest route.
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OP is well versed with the game. Check out his posts. I have no idea why he created this thread. Perhaps he was trying to be funny?
 
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HumbleNinja said:
What's the shelf life on a 44yo man and 24yo chick? Help me DJ's. I'm having an AFC meltdown..
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Lol roll bread
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But she told me she loved me on christmas day no less.


She brought out the raging AFC in me.
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you ought to be ashamed of yourself!

seriously. don't you think you ought to know better? what kind of example are you setting? :down:
 
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shes suckin bowsers d1ck! :nervous:
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:nervous: :eek:

I will SPIN MORE PLATES and use women to boost my shattered self-esteem!


On the real nothings wrong. Just testing the So Suave AFC Emergency Response System.

Still seeing the chick and going out with her next Saturday. #44yoWINNING. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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