nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To Shocker:
Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??
Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
/help me dj
- Thread starter Grand Wizzard Alamar
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To Grand Wizard Alamar
Why do you think you're retarded ? Think yourself to be the Best. You know what Muhammed Ali said ? He said it countless times , in fron of the cameras worldwide "Im the greatest" . And you can bet he was the greatest.
Commig to your query about friendszone.
I aint very good at that too , but IMHO , the difference lies in Intent. Dont ever be friends with her , attract her. You dont attract your friends right? I hope you get the difference here.
Plus the difference lies in the fact that you also make her invest in the relationship .
Ok lets break it down further:
Every approach has three main Parts ( this is from Mystey method, I suggest you subscribe to their news letter)
1) Opener
2) Demonstration Of higher Value
3) Qualification
Lets start with part 2 : Demonstration of higher value
This is where you show you are different from other guys , kind of show a magic trick , perform an handwriting analysis , do a palmistry etc suff,; basically you seprate yourself from other guys. This is important as it makes you stand out ; you're different and better than other guys.
3) Qualification
This stage you make her invested. Kinda like you pull back by saying , "I guess i'll leave now , cuz i really dont know you much and so i'm not sure" Something on those lines.... basically you pull back.
If she invests in a bit further , like by saying"No , its not that, we really can know each other" or "I'm not so bad , in fact i really like...blah blah blah"
Boom you're in ... Shes invested herself , now shes interested too...
Here slow down a bit and setup a date if possible etc....
Thats all....
right now , dont just read all this stuff, do it.
And let us know on this thread what you did..... Dont worry about mistakes , just damn do it.....you'll grow up fast...
Why do you think you're retarded ? Think yourself to be the Best. You know what Muhammed Ali said ? He said it countless times , in fron of the cameras worldwide "Im the greatest" . And you can bet he was the greatest.
Commig to your query about friendszone.
I aint very good at that too , but IMHO , the difference lies in Intent. Dont ever be friends with her , attract her. You dont attract your friends right? I hope you get the difference here.
Plus the difference lies in the fact that you also make her invest in the relationship .
Ok lets break it down further:
Every approach has three main Parts ( this is from Mystey method, I suggest you subscribe to their news letter)
1) Opener
2) Demonstration Of higher Value
3) Qualification
Lets start with part 2 : Demonstration of higher value
This is where you show you are different from other guys , kind of show a magic trick , perform an handwriting analysis , do a palmistry etc suff,; basically you seprate yourself from other guys. This is important as it makes you stand out ; you're different and better than other guys.
3) Qualification
This stage you make her invested. Kinda like you pull back by saying , "I guess i'll leave now , cuz i really dont know you much and so i'm not sure" Something on those lines.... basically you pull back.
If she invests in a bit further , like by saying"No , its not that, we really can know each other" or "I'm not so bad , in fact i really like...blah blah blah"
Boom you're in ... Shes invested herself , now shes interested too...
Here slow down a bit and setup a date if possible etc....
Thats all....
right now , dont just read all this stuff, do it.
And let us know on this thread what you did..... Dont worry about mistakes , just damn do it.....you'll grow up fast...
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Yes, it offends me...No just kidding, I'm a desi too. Nice to see some Indian DJs around. How old are you?nicenomore said:
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To shocker
i'm 20..what about you???
and where you from??
i'm 20..what about you???
and where you from??
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
I'm 16, in the US. Where exactly is Chandigarh?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Ahh lol I live near this Indian resturant, food to kill for... I ****ing love Indian food!!
Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.
I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...
Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.
I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
What do you mean you were diagnosed with being horrible in social situations?????Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
To shocker
Chandigarh is in Punjab. Google for further info. Which place in States do you reside??? And from where in INdia do you belong to???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
They are diagnosed on the basis of a triad, or group of three behavioral impairments or dysfunctions: 1. impaired social interaction, 2. impaired communication and 3. restricted and repetitive interests and activities
I dont really wanna talk about it, but I want to be able to learn how to talk/respond to people in a way that they feel comfortable and enjoy my company...
I dont really wanna talk about it, but I want to be able to learn how to talk/respond to people in a way that they feel comfortable and enjoy my company...
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Well if its hard for you , dont worry , work harder . Go out more. Whatever you do , just slow down . take some time to talk to other people (esp girls , females) , you will slowly gain social intelligence and learn to get the vibe......
It may be extra tough for you , but dont worry you can do it.
TRead the biography of Wilma Rudolph , an olympic athlete , who despite being told she would be unable to walk , conquered olympics.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilma_Rudolph
It may be extra tough for you , but dont worry you can do it.
TRead the biography of Wilma Rudolph , an olympic athlete , who despite being told she would be unable to walk , conquered olympics.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilma_Rudolph
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Dont let this condition affect you....
Read the biography of Wilma Rudolph.... She was diagnosed with paralyaia in both feet and yet she overcame to become an olympic winner. You can find it on wikipedia
Just go out and practice
Read the biography of Wilma Rudolph.... She was diagnosed with paralyaia in both feet and yet she overcame to become an olympic winner. You can find it on wikipedia
Just go out and practice
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
what do I practice? I mean... if I try to flirt with someone, I'll make a direct comment about them, or make an awkward comment...
I don't know how to avoid the pedestal, how do you talk so you're letting them please you? and how do you say things like this without seeming rude or something?
I don't know how to avoid the pedestal, how do you talk so you're letting them please you? and how do you say things like this without seeming rude or something?
Jack-Torrance
Don Juan
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Talking to girls on MSN is a HELL OF A LOT easier if you ask me...
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It's coz you got more time to think of your responses, but it's also a lot easier to get into the friend zone due to the lack of kino, eye contact and facial expresions ect. That's my opinion anyway.Jack-Torrance said:
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Colorado...family is from Andhra Pradesh...Like I said before, good to see some Indian DJs around.nicenomore said:
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
how should I kino girls enough to avoid the friend zone?
I dont know what I'm supposed to touch.. really.
I dont know what I'm supposed to touch.. really.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088 - read that.
It will explain kino a lot to you.
It will explain kino a lot to you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok, yesterday I smiled at a girl when I passed her some papers for class..
later she talked to me a little... but
I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....
so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?
later she talked to me a little... but
I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....
so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
say something along with it........ simple..Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
in my school days i just started to smile at a chick ....... after 6-7 times , she started smiling back and approach became a hell lot easier..
but thats too time consuming...
i suggest you say hi / anything alongwith....
smiling is good..it shows u r warm and friendly....
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
ffs alamar every third post stasrts off with i suck or im a retard.
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Totally true..dj ben2 said:
as you think , so you become......
start thining like Muhammad Ali , one of whose most famous quotes was:
"I'm the greatest"
Say it to yourself probably 500 times a day for better results
lol“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.