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[nicenomore]

To Shocker:

Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??

 

[nicenomore]

To Grand Wizard Alamar

Why do you think you're retarded ? Think yourself to be the Best. You know what Muhammed Ali said ? He said it countless times , in fron of the cameras worldwide "Im the greatest" . And you can bet he was the greatest.

Commig to your query about friendszone.
I aint very good at that too , but IMHO , the difference lies in Intent. Dont ever be friends with her , attract her. You dont attract your friends right? I hope you get the difference here.

Plus the difference lies in the fact that you also make her invest in the relationship .

Ok lets break it down further:
Every approach has three main Parts ( this is from Mystey method, I suggest you subscribe to their news letter)

1) Opener
2) Demonstration Of higher Value
3) Qualification

Lets start with part 2 : Demonstration of higher value

This is where you show you are different from other guys , kind of show a magic trick , perform an handwriting analysis , do a palmistry etc suff,; basically you seprate yourself from other guys. This is important as it makes you stand out ; you're different and better than other guys.

3) Qualification

This stage you make her invested. Kinda like you pull back by saying , "I guess i'll leave now , cuz i really dont know you much and so i'm not sure" Something on those lines.... basically you pull back.

If she invests in a bit further , like by saying"No , its not that, we really can know each other" or "I'm not so bad , in fact i really like...blah blah blah"

Boom you're in ... Shes invested herself , now shes interested too...

Here slow down a bit and setup a date if possible etc....

Thats all....

right now , dont just read all this stuff, do it.

And let us know on this thread what you did..... Dont worry about mistakes , just damn do it.....you'll grow up fast...

 

[The Shocker]

To Shocker:

Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??

Yes, it offends me...No just kidding, I'm a desi too. Nice to see some Indian DJs around. How old are you?

 

[nicenomore]

To shocker

i'm 20..what about you???

and where you from??

 

[The Shocker]

I'm 16, in the US. Where exactly is Chandigarh?

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Ahh lol I live near this Indian resturant, food to kill for... I ****ing love Indian food!!

Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.

I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...

 

[nicenomore]

Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.

I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...

What do you mean you were diagnosed with being horrible in social situations?????


To shocker

Chandigarh is in Punjab. Google for further info. Which place in States do you reside??? And from where in INdia do you belong to???

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

They are diagnosed on the basis of a triad, or group of three behavioral impairments or dysfunctions: 1. impaired social interaction, 2. impaired communication and 3. restricted and repetitive interests and activities

I dont really wanna talk about it, but I want to be able to learn how to talk/respond to people in a way that they feel comfortable and enjoy my company...

 

[nicenomore]

Well if its hard for you , dont worry , work harder . Go out more. Whatever you do , just slow down . take some time to talk to other people (esp girls , females) , you will slowly gain social intelligence and learn to get the vibe......

It may be extra tough for you , but dont worry you can do it.

TRead the biography of Wilma Rudolph , an olympic athlete , who despite being told she would be unable to walk , conquered olympics.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilma_Rudolph

 

[nicenomore]

Dont let this condition affect you....

Read the biography of Wilma Rudolph.... She was diagnosed with paralyaia in both feet and yet she overcame to become an olympic winner. You can find it on wikipedia


Just go out and practice

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

what do I practice? I mean... if I try to flirt with someone, I'll make a direct comment about them, or make an awkward comment...
I don't know how to avoid the pedestal, how do you talk so you're letting them please you? and how do you say things like this without seeming rude or something?

 

[Jack-Torrance]

Talking to girls on MSN is a HELL OF A LOT easier if you ask me...

 

[Plec07]

Talking to girls on MSN is a HELL OF A LOT easier if you ask me...

It's coz you got more time to think of your responses, but it's also a lot easier to get into the friend zone due to the lack of kino, eye contact and facial expresions ect. That's my opinion anyway.

 

[The Shocker]

Chandigarh is in Punjab. Google for further info. Which place in States do you reside??? And from where in INdia do you belong to???

Colorado...family is from Andhra Pradesh...Like I said before, good to see some Indian DJs around.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

how should I kino girls enough to avoid the friend zone?
I dont know what I'm supposed to touch.. really.

 

[Plec07]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088 - read that.
It will explain kino a lot to you.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

ok, yesterday I smiled at a girl when I passed her some papers for class..
later she talked to me a little... but
I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....

so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?

 

[nicenomore]

I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....

so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?

say something along with it........ simple..

in my school days i just started to smile at a chick ....... after 6-7 times , she started smiling back and approach became a hell lot easier..

but thats too time consuming...

i suggest you say hi / anything alongwith....

smiling is good..it shows u r warm and friendly....

 

[dj ben2]

ffs alamar every third post stasrts off with i suck or im a retard.
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively

 

[nicenomore]

ffs alamar every third post stasrts off with i suck or im a retard.
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively

Totally true..

as you think , so you become......

start thining like Muhammad Ali , one of whose most famous quotes was:
"I'm the greatest"

Say it to yourself probably 500 times a day for better results lol