nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To Shocker:
Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??
Yes I am an Indian , does it bother you? Or are you one too??
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
/help me dj
- Thread starter Grand Wizzard Alamar
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To Grand Wizard Alamar
Why do you think you're retarded ? Think yourself to be the Best. You know what Muhammed Ali said ? He said it countless times , in fron of the cameras worldwide "Im the greatest" . And you can bet he was the greatest.
Commig to your query about friendszone.
I aint very good at that too , but IMHO , the difference lies in Intent. Dont ever be friends with her , attract her. You dont attract your friends right? I hope you get the difference here.
Plus the difference lies in the fact that you also make her invest in the relationship .
Ok lets break it down further:
Every approach has three main Parts ( this is from Mystey method, I suggest you subscribe to their news letter)
1) Opener
2) Demonstration Of higher Value
3) Qualification
Lets start with part 2 : Demonstration of higher value
This is where you show you are different from other guys , kind of show a magic trick , perform an handwriting analysis , do a palmistry etc suff,; basically you seprate yourself from other guys. This is important as it makes you stand out ; you're different and better than other guys.
3) Qualification
This stage you make her invested. Kinda like you pull back by saying , "I guess i'll leave now , cuz i really dont know you much and so i'm not sure" Something on those lines.... basically you pull back.
If she invests in a bit further , like by saying"No , its not that, we really can know each other" or "I'm not so bad , in fact i really like...blah blah blah"
Boom you're in ... Shes invested herself , now shes interested too...
Here slow down a bit and setup a date if possible etc....
Thats all....
right now , dont just read all this stuff, do it.
And let us know on this thread what you did..... Dont worry about mistakes , just damn do it.....you'll grow up fast...
Why do you think you're retarded ? Think yourself to be the Best. You know what Muhammed Ali said ? He said it countless times , in fron of the cameras worldwide "Im the greatest" . And you can bet he was the greatest.
Commig to your query about friendszone.
I aint very good at that too , but IMHO , the difference lies in Intent. Dont ever be friends with her , attract her. You dont attract your friends right? I hope you get the difference here.
Plus the difference lies in the fact that you also make her invest in the relationship .
Ok lets break it down further:
Every approach has three main Parts ( this is from Mystey method, I suggest you subscribe to their news letter)
1) Opener
2) Demonstration Of higher Value
3) Qualification
Lets start with part 2 : Demonstration of higher value
This is where you show you are different from other guys , kind of show a magic trick , perform an handwriting analysis , do a palmistry etc suff,; basically you seprate yourself from other guys. This is important as it makes you stand out ; you're different and better than other guys.
3) Qualification
This stage you make her invested. Kinda like you pull back by saying , "I guess i'll leave now , cuz i really dont know you much and so i'm not sure" Something on those lines.... basically you pull back.
If she invests in a bit further , like by saying"No , its not that, we really can know each other" or "I'm not so bad , in fact i really like...blah blah blah"
Boom you're in ... Shes invested herself , now shes interested too...
Here slow down a bit and setup a date if possible etc....
Thats all....
right now , dont just read all this stuff, do it.
And let us know on this thread what you did..... Dont worry about mistakes , just damn do it.....you'll grow up fast...
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Yes, it offends me...No just kidding, I'm a desi too. Nice to see some Indian DJs around. How old are you?nicenomore said:
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
To shocker
i'm 20..what about you???
and where you from??
i'm 20..what about you???
and where you from??
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
I'm 16, in the US. Where exactly is Chandigarh?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Ahh lol I live near this Indian resturant, food to kill for... I ****ing love Indian food!!
Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.
I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...
Also I actually do have some strange retard problems:
I am horrible in social situations, and interacting well with other people.
I was diagnosed so, theres nothing I can do about it except learn how to not make mistakes so freely like I did last friday...
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
What do you mean you were diagnosed with being horrible in social situations?????Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
To shocker
Chandigarh is in Punjab. Google for further info. Which place in States do you reside??? And from where in INdia do you belong to???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
They are diagnosed on the basis of a triad, or group of three behavioral impairments or dysfunctions: 1. impaired social interaction, 2. impaired communication and 3. restricted and repetitive interests and activities
I dont really wanna talk about it, but I want to be able to learn how to talk/respond to people in a way that they feel comfortable and enjoy my company...
I dont really wanna talk about it, but I want to be able to learn how to talk/respond to people in a way that they feel comfortable and enjoy my company...
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Well if its hard for you , dont worry , work harder . Go out more. Whatever you do , just slow down . take some time to talk to other people (esp girls , females) , you will slowly gain social intelligence and learn to get the vibe......
It may be extra tough for you , but dont worry you can do it.
TRead the biography of Wilma Rudolph , an olympic athlete , who despite being told she would be unable to walk , conquered olympics.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilma_Rudolph
It may be extra tough for you , but dont worry you can do it.
TRead the biography of Wilma Rudolph , an olympic athlete , who despite being told she would be unable to walk , conquered olympics.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilma_Rudolph
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Dont let this condition affect you....
Read the biography of Wilma Rudolph.... She was diagnosed with paralyaia in both feet and yet she overcame to become an olympic winner. You can find it on wikipedia
Just go out and practice
Read the biography of Wilma Rudolph.... She was diagnosed with paralyaia in both feet and yet she overcame to become an olympic winner. You can find it on wikipedia
Just go out and practice
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
what do I practice? I mean... if I try to flirt with someone, I'll make a direct comment about them, or make an awkward comment...
I don't know how to avoid the pedestal, how do you talk so you're letting them please you? and how do you say things like this without seeming rude or something?
I don't know how to avoid the pedestal, how do you talk so you're letting them please you? and how do you say things like this without seeming rude or something?
Jack-Torrance
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Talking to girls on MSN is a HELL OF A LOT easier if you ask me...
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It's coz you got more time to think of your responses, but it's also a lot easier to get into the friend zone due to the lack of kino, eye contact and facial expresions ect. That's my opinion anyway.Jack-Torrance said:
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Colorado...family is from Andhra Pradesh...Like I said before, good to see some Indian DJs around.nicenomore said:
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
how should I kino girls enough to avoid the friend zone?
I dont know what I'm supposed to touch.. really.
I dont know what I'm supposed to touch.. really.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088 - read that.
It will explain kino a lot to you.
It will explain kino a lot to you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok, yesterday I smiled at a girl when I passed her some papers for class..
later she talked to me a little... but
I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....
so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?
later she talked to me a little... but
I thought smiling is creepy to girls...
omg... winking...... that would be horrrrrrrrrible for me to do....
so... how do you do it without seeming like a creep?
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
say something along with it........ simple..Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
in my school days i just started to smile at a chick ....... after 6-7 times , she started smiling back and approach became a hell lot easier..
but thats too time consuming...
i suggest you say hi / anything alongwith....
smiling is good..it shows u r warm and friendly....
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
ffs alamar every third post stasrts off with i suck or im a retard.
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively
if u say ur something enough u become it. ur on a great track dont ruin it for urslef by thinking negatively
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Totally true..dj ben2 said:
as you think , so you become......
start thining like Muhammad Ali , one of whose most famous quotes was:
"I'm the greatest"
Say it to yourself probably 500 times a day for better results
lol"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.