"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HELP ME conquer my EGO

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Tiguere

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my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheAsianLoverReturns

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Tiguere said:
my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
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Don't take women so seriously.

I agree with you about the inviting a girl over your place. If a girl isn't hot enough to out with, I just invite her directly to my place. If she refuses, then I tell her bye.
 
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