"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HELP ME conquer my EGO

Tiguere

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my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheAsianLoverReturns

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Tiguere said:
my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
Don't take women so seriously.

I agree with you about the inviting a girl over your place. If a girl isn't hot enough to out with, I just invite her directly to my place. If she refuses, then I tell her bye.
 
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