"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HELP ME conquer my EGO

Tiguere

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my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheAsianLoverReturns

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Tiguere said:
my ego seems to get in the way with women as of late.

if i call and they dont pick up my ego wont let me call them again.

if im talking to a girl and she says "hold on i got a call on the other line" my ego tells me to hang up and let her call me back.

if i invite a girl over to my house and she declines.... i get pi$$ed. and dont know how to continue the copnversation naturally.

if im talking to a girl on the phone and she is the one that ends the conversation i immediately take it as she is uninterested.

any books out there and links helpful for someone like me. advice please.
Don't take women so seriously.

I agree with you about the inviting a girl over your place. If a girl isn't hot enough to out with, I just invite her directly to my place. If she refuses, then I tell her bye.
 
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