"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anchorman

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Well, i have a choice of two presents for a chick friend, just a regular friend i met like 4 months ago. I am not trying to get in her pants. What is a better choice?

1. 20 bucks and a card

2. "The Scorpions" CD and a card

The reason i cant decide is because I dont think she will like scorpions very much.

Help me choose.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jiza101

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Dont get a chick money.. It gives them ideas. Get her some ****ing nice lipgloss or some ****, that you know she likes. By her a chillout album, or an rnb one.. just make sure she likes it. DONT get her money, and yes a card is good.:p
 

NEWBIE101

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No money.

Get her something thoughful (maybe it can have something to do with an inside joke between the two of you). It doesn't have to be expensive, just something she'll remember and appreciate.
 

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Originally posted by Anchorman
Well, i have a choice of two presents for a chick friend, just a regular friend i met like 4 months ago. I am not trying to get in her pants. What is a better choice?

1. 20 bucks and a card

2. "The Scorpions" CD and a card

The reason i cant decide is because I dont think she will like scorpions very much.

Help me choose.
Flowers. Pick them yourself and give them to her. No card, nothing formal or expensive.
 

DJUofS

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Buy her some panties... My best friend and I did this to one of our close friends who was a girl right in front of her boyfriend. That was hysterical and he was pissed... to say the least. Thing is, we aren't even remotely attracted to this girl so he doesn't have to worry about us.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Omega

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Make something with your hands. For instance, carve something, build something, or even knit/sew something.
 
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I would give her flowers instead. I am not talking a big bunch. Small bunch is enough. Cost me around £4.50 (Approx $7-$8). Never spend alot of money on a chick. Or you can even pinch some from your garden without your parents knowing:D .
 
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