"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anchorman

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Well, i have a choice of two presents for a chick friend, just a regular friend i met like 4 months ago. I am not trying to get in her pants. What is a better choice?

1. 20 bucks and a card

2. "The Scorpions" CD and a card

The reason i cant decide is because I dont think she will like scorpions very much.

Help me choose.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jiza101

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Dont get a chick money.. It gives them ideas. Get her some ****ing nice lipgloss or some ****, that you know she likes. By her a chillout album, or an rnb one.. just make sure she likes it. DONT get her money, and yes a card is good.:p
 

NEWBIE101

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No money.

Get her something thoughful (maybe it can have something to do with an inside joke between the two of you). It doesn't have to be expensive, just something she'll remember and appreciate.
 

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Originally posted by Anchorman
Well, i have a choice of two presents for a chick friend, just a regular friend i met like 4 months ago. I am not trying to get in her pants. What is a better choice?

1. 20 bucks and a card

2. "The Scorpions" CD and a card

The reason i cant decide is because I dont think she will like scorpions very much.

Help me choose.
Flowers. Pick them yourself and give them to her. No card, nothing formal or expensive.
 

DJUofS

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Buy her some panties... My best friend and I did this to one of our close friends who was a girl right in front of her boyfriend. That was hysterical and he was pissed... to say the least. Thing is, we aren't even remotely attracted to this girl so he doesn't have to worry about us.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make something with your hands. For instance, carve something, build something, or even knit/sew something.
 
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I would give her flowers instead. I am not talking a big bunch. Small bunch is enough. Cost me around £4.50 (Approx $7-$8). Never spend alot of money on a chick. Or you can even pinch some from your garden without your parents knowing:D .
 
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