Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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help me choose a dance class

napoleon

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OK, so after New Years eve celebration I got into my head an idea that I had to learn how to dance. I dance well but this will keep me occupied (less TV;) and I will have to interact with women. Not to mention that I like dancing;)
I can learn- classic dances, latino or, I was thinking, salsa. Cause everyone on this site seems to be recommeding it. And it looks fun to me. I found a good salsa school. Cause, classic- I can dance them only in weddings, latino- I don't know where I would dance them, but salsa you can dance in salsa clubs and incorporate it into club dancing.
What to choose?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fortunate_Juan

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I like salsa personally. But any dance you end up learning will help you with your rhythm which will help you with all other dances.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Salsa or Argentine Tango.

Salsa is a very sexy dance to watch for both men and women. It's also hard to really look good doing unless you have good rythm. Either way you shoud learn it.

Argentine tango, IMO, is the most sensual dance. It is very elegant and more akin to passionate love making than crazy animal sex (like salsa). You'll also learn the basics quicker and it will be funner earlier on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEe2j43X-Ms
 

JPFromTally

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Visit all the classes and take a quick look in the window. Go for the one that has the most hot women in the class as students. No sense learning the forbidden dance of love if you're going to be doing it with a grandmother.
 
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