"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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help me choose a dance class

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napoleon

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OK, so after New Years eve celebration I got into my head an idea that I had to learn how to dance. I dance well but this will keep me occupied (less TV;) and I will have to interact with women. Not to mention that I like dancing;)
I can learn- classic dances, latino or, I was thinking, salsa. Cause everyone on this site seems to be recommeding it. And it looks fun to me. I found a good salsa school. Cause, classic- I can dance them only in weddings, latino- I don't know where I would dance them, but salsa you can dance in salsa clubs and incorporate it into club dancing.
What to choose?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fortunate_Juan

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I like salsa personally. But any dance you end up learning will help you with your rhythm which will help you with all other dances.
 
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Salsa or Argentine Tango.

Salsa is a very sexy dance to watch for both men and women. It's also hard to really look good doing unless you have good rythm. Either way you shoud learn it.

Argentine tango, IMO, is the most sensual dance. It is very elegant and more akin to passionate love making than crazy animal sex (like salsa). You'll also learn the basics quicker and it will be funner earlier on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEe2j43X-Ms
 
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JPFromTally

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Visit all the classes and take a quick look in the window. Go for the one that has the most hot women in the class as students. No sense learning the forbidden dance of love if you're going to be doing it with a grandmother.
 
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