"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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help me choose a dance class

napoleon

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OK, so after New Years eve celebration I got into my head an idea that I had to learn how to dance. I dance well but this will keep me occupied (less TV;) and I will have to interact with women. Not to mention that I like dancing;)
I can learn- classic dances, latino or, I was thinking, salsa. Cause everyone on this site seems to be recommeding it. And it looks fun to me. I found a good salsa school. Cause, classic- I can dance them only in weddings, latino- I don't know where I would dance them, but salsa you can dance in salsa clubs and incorporate it into club dancing.
What to choose?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fortunate_Juan

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I like salsa personally. But any dance you end up learning will help you with your rhythm which will help you with all other dances.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Salsa or Argentine Tango.

Salsa is a very sexy dance to watch for both men and women. It's also hard to really look good doing unless you have good rythm. Either way you shoud learn it.

Argentine tango, IMO, is the most sensual dance. It is very elegant and more akin to passionate love making than crazy animal sex (like salsa). You'll also learn the basics quicker and it will be funner earlier on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEe2j43X-Ms
 

JPFromTally

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Visit all the classes and take a quick look in the window. Go for the one that has the most hot women in the class as students. No sense learning the forbidden dance of love if you're going to be doing it with a grandmother.
 
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