"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help, lacking motivation

Kourt

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hey guys, i'm real skinny, not very bulk, i'd like to bulk up like every other guy, but I can never seem to get around to working out. Just lazy I guess. I think well now i'm going to do 25 pushups and 50 situps a day. Dosnt happen. Like I said, while i'd like to bulk up, I lack the motivation to actually do any work. HELP!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well motivation is what its all about.

when you think about workng out, you need to think about those guys with abs and big biceps flexxxing their greased pecs and all the girls getting wet over them.. every rep think that and think that you WILL be one of them becuae it CAN and WILL happen. It's happening for me... it can happen for you
 

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Man, you gotta envision your END GOAL. I have harped on this in my topic here. Imagine the consequences of your actions, man!

If you sit around and let yourself decrapitate over the course of time... you stay skinny and unattractive!! Well I had to work to CUT UP and lose fat, so my anti-role-model was anybody fat. I knew in my mind that working for a better body would boost my confidence and make me attractive. Sounds like your anti-role-model is Carrot-Top.

Now imagine your role model... what do you want to look like? Envision yourself in the future with rippled muscles, chiseled abs, girls asking if they can feel you up and then giggling and whispering about you while you confidently smile and reap the rewards of your action and smart planning. Yes, you can become that man! You must actively envision yourself as that man while you work out. Imagine the thoughts that you will think as that man. Imagine the way you will look and how chicks will react.

IF THIS DOESN'T MOTIVATE YOU, THEN YOU DON'T WANT IT! Be Carrot Top or Richard Simmons, less competition for me. Your choice-- but I advise you to step up and go after this thing with a burning intensity.
 

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OMG carrot top . . . wow yes defanatly my anti-role model
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
Do you only work out to get attention from the chicks? That's not right bro..
If thinking about what others will think about you is what it takes to get motivated, do it

then you will see the personal value in it, such as mental toughness, self respect, self-confidence etc
 
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