"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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help! lack of patience throwing all i know off

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for the past 2 days i've been really impatient, i still myspace girls get them to chat online use c+f great during the first 15 min but then! something happens within me and i start changin the convo into sex talk which is fine but i begin askin for sexual pics and my approach becomes an arguement as they resist and throw the "i dont even know you" line out which leads to a wall and all seems in despair.

how can i pace myself and get it goin smoothly again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're concentrating on the end result, not the enjoyment of your interaction.
They're realizing you're into it for you, not them.
They don't owe you anything, and perhaps your hormones are ruining your focus.
You can be sexual yet still be in control of yourslef, and enjoy the interaction wherever it may lead.
Concentrate on having fun, not just getting laid.
Learn about women. Ask them questions. Find their passions and interests.
Use this time to learn. And enjoy it.
Women are really attracted to men who are sexual yet possess self control.
 

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good advice, how do you get past a women's "i dont even know you" line
 

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Build rapport by letting them get to know you , while you ask them questions abou ttheir life.

Women get turned on by the prospect of Intimacy.
The more intimate you two are, the more likely it will be in her head that sex between you two is natural and expected.
 
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