"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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help! lack of patience throwing all i know off

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for the past 2 days i've been really impatient, i still myspace girls get them to chat online use c+f great during the first 15 min but then! something happens within me and i start changin the convo into sex talk which is fine but i begin askin for sexual pics and my approach becomes an arguement as they resist and throw the "i dont even know you" line out which leads to a wall and all seems in despair.

how can i pace myself and get it goin smoothly again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You're concentrating on the end result, not the enjoyment of your interaction.
They're realizing you're into it for you, not them.
They don't owe you anything, and perhaps your hormones are ruining your focus.
You can be sexual yet still be in control of yourslef, and enjoy the interaction wherever it may lead.
Concentrate on having fun, not just getting laid.
Learn about women. Ask them questions. Find their passions and interests.
Use this time to learn. And enjoy it.
Women are really attracted to men who are sexual yet possess self control.
 

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good advice, how do you get past a women's "i dont even know you" line
 

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Build rapport by letting them get to know you , while you ask them questions abou ttheir life.

Women get turned on by the prospect of Intimacy.
The more intimate you two are, the more likely it will be in her head that sex between you two is natural and expected.
 
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