"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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help! lack of patience throwing all i know off

cNfny

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for the past 2 days i've been really impatient, i still myspace girls get them to chat online use c+f great during the first 15 min but then! something happens within me and i start changin the convo into sex talk which is fine but i begin askin for sexual pics and my approach becomes an arguement as they resist and throw the "i dont even know you" line out which leads to a wall and all seems in despair.

how can i pace myself and get it goin smoothly again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're concentrating on the end result, not the enjoyment of your interaction.
They're realizing you're into it for you, not them.
They don't owe you anything, and perhaps your hormones are ruining your focus.
You can be sexual yet still be in control of yourslef, and enjoy the interaction wherever it may lead.
Concentrate on having fun, not just getting laid.
Learn about women. Ask them questions. Find their passions and interests.
Use this time to learn. And enjoy it.
Women are really attracted to men who are sexual yet possess self control.
 

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good advice, how do you get past a women's "i dont even know you" line
 

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Build rapport by letting them get to know you , while you ask them questions abou ttheir life.

Women get turned on by the prospect of Intimacy.
The more intimate you two are, the more likely it will be in her head that sex between you two is natural and expected.
 
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