"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

Don Afc

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hello DJs I need your help.

In my lab at school, a girl (I would say an 8... hotter than any girl I've been with) is totally hating on me all the time

"wrestling is lame" - she knows I'm on the team
"I hate people who drive" - she knows I drive everyday

yeah she can be a biatch, but occasionally she will come over to me and mess my hair up or sit on my lap.

Is she just playing games?? My boys say she's too much of a scandal for me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can you handle her?? From what she is doing tells me that she thinks you don't have the nerve/balls to get her.

Next time she sits on your lap wrestle her to the ground and cop a feel then tie her up and take her for a long drive in your car!!! Then she'll really hate/love you!!
 

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Re: Re: help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Can you handle her?? From what she is doing tells me that she thinks you don't have the nerve/balls to get her.
Spot on.

You need to stand up for yourself. When she started making jokes about stuff that you stand for, come right back and make some jokes about stuff she is all about (i.e. her hobbies). Relax and have fun, don't get all bent about it. She's a tease.
 

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Re: Re: help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

you know what, I think you DJs are right. She thinks that I can't keep up with her. I'm just not used to all the touchy/flirty/verbal-battles, as my old GFs have all been pretty low-key and shy, which is the type I kind of like. This girl is driving me crazy though.
Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Next time she sits on your lap wrestle her to the ground and cop a feel then tie her up and take her for a long drive in your car!!! Then she'll really hate/love you!!
PuertoRican_Lover, how about next time she grabs my arm at school I sink in double under-hooks, pick her up and slam her. lol kidding.
 

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One thing I've noticed about women like this, is that they HATE it when things backfire on them. There was one, who was basically/recently my "date" to a concert, and was having a steak dinner "on me" and when some others joined us, and I referred to her as my date, she made a comment "Thats news to me" and the others at the table had a great laugh at my expense.....it was only a joke, but it made me look like a loser/idiot....then she basically flaunted herself all over the concert audotorium, and paid little attention to me, we went dancing afterwards and she ignored me, and had the audacity to complain about men, all on the 45 minute ride home (For which I alone sprang for gas)....

Fine and well, she blew up her ego, and cost me about 66 bucks....no huge loss, but today, when she called me, and wanted a favor, and I more or less told her to get f***ed, sure felt good, and when she figured that she wasnt going to get my help on that favor, she was in the process of saying "goodbye" when I prematurely hung up the phone on her! She shouldnt be too shocked when I no longer work out with her, and help her in the gym on Wednesdays, and she will miss the drinks afterwards, let some other sucker spring for her beer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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