"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

Don Afc

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hello DJs I need your help.

In my lab at school, a girl (I would say an 8... hotter than any girl I've been with) is totally hating on me all the time

"wrestling is lame" - she knows I'm on the team
"I hate people who drive" - she knows I drive everyday

yeah she can be a biatch, but occasionally she will come over to me and mess my hair up or sit on my lap.

Is she just playing games?? My boys say she's too much of a scandal for me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can you handle her?? From what she is doing tells me that she thinks you don't have the nerve/balls to get her.

Next time she sits on your lap wrestle her to the ground and cop a feel then tie her up and take her for a long drive in your car!!! Then she'll really hate/love you!!
 

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Re: Re: help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Can you handle her?? From what she is doing tells me that she thinks you don't have the nerve/balls to get her.
Spot on.

You need to stand up for yourself. When she started making jokes about stuff that you stand for, come right back and make some jokes about stuff she is all about (i.e. her hobbies). Relax and have fun, don't get all bent about it. She's a tease.
 

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Re: Re: help, Is this girl at college interested in me?

you know what, I think you DJs are right. She thinks that I can't keep up with her. I'm just not used to all the touchy/flirty/verbal-battles, as my old GFs have all been pretty low-key and shy, which is the type I kind of like. This girl is driving me crazy though.
Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Next time she sits on your lap wrestle her to the ground and cop a feel then tie her up and take her for a long drive in your car!!! Then she'll really hate/love you!!
PuertoRican_Lover, how about next time she grabs my arm at school I sink in double under-hooks, pick her up and slam her. lol kidding.
 

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One thing I've noticed about women like this, is that they HATE it when things backfire on them. There was one, who was basically/recently my "date" to a concert, and was having a steak dinner "on me" and when some others joined us, and I referred to her as my date, she made a comment "Thats news to me" and the others at the table had a great laugh at my expense.....it was only a joke, but it made me look like a loser/idiot....then she basically flaunted herself all over the concert audotorium, and paid little attention to me, we went dancing afterwards and she ignored me, and had the audacity to complain about men, all on the 45 minute ride home (For which I alone sprang for gas)....

Fine and well, she blew up her ego, and cost me about 66 bucks....no huge loss, but today, when she called me, and wanted a favor, and I more or less told her to get f***ed, sure felt good, and when she figured that she wasnt going to get my help on that favor, she was in the process of saying "goodbye" when I prematurely hung up the phone on her! She shouldnt be too shocked when I no longer work out with her, and help her in the gym on Wednesdays, and she will miss the drinks afterwards, let some other sucker spring for her beer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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