So I thought this girl was attracted to me because she would always say hi and she asked me to hang out with her at school. Eventually I get a number lol. About three weeks later I get the balls to ask her out. I'm like so are you busy Friday and she says yes I'm hanging out with my best friend. I think I'm entering too far in tothe friendzone now because nothing sexual is happening between us when we hang out at school. I haven't broken the touch barrier and the only flirting I've did was teasing. She doesn't mind when I stand close to her, and we'll walk together in the hallway. My issue is I think she's friendzoned like every guy because I don't know if she's ever had a boyfriend and she's always around her female friends. She's one of those rich girly girls, so we're talking on different levels than like a promiscuous girl. I"m not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I would say I'm around a 7 and I'm pretty masculine. Is there anything I can do. This is my first girl because I've been shy lol. What's worse is people always ask if that's my gf when it's not.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Help I ****** with this girl(kind of long)
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NorwegianDJ
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So what are you gonna do dude?
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
NorwegianDJ
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Dude, you're just looking for excuses. It's back to step one of grabbing your manhood and using it.JPlaya said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
trying2fit
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This same sh** is happening to me. Girl says hi, im just like wtf does that mean. anyways about ur problem. im guessing she likes u, and i think when u asked her out, she didn't get that u trying to ask her out.
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum