So I thought this girl was attracted to me because she would always say hi and she asked me to hang out with her at school. Eventually I get a number lol. About three weeks later I get the balls to ask her out. I'm like so are you busy Friday and she says yes I'm hanging out with my best friend. I think I'm entering too far in tothe friendzone now because nothing sexual is happening between us when we hang out at school. I haven't broken the touch barrier and the only flirting I've did was teasing. She doesn't mind when I stand close to her, and we'll walk together in the hallway. My issue is I think she's friendzoned like every guy because I don't know if she's ever had a boyfriend and she's always around her female friends. She's one of those rich girly girls, so we're talking on different levels than like a promiscuous girl. I"m not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I would say I'm around a 7 and I'm pretty masculine. Is there anything I can do. This is my first girl because I've been shy lol. What's worse is people always ask if that's my gf when it's not.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Help I ****** with this girl(kind of long)
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NorwegianDJ
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So what are you gonna do dude?
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
NorwegianDJ
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Dude, you're just looking for excuses. It's back to step one of grabbing your manhood and using it.JPlaya said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
trying2fit
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This same sh** is happening to me. Girl says hi, im just like wtf does that mean. anyways about ur problem. im guessing she likes u, and i think when u asked her out, she didn't get that u trying to ask her out.
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum