So I thought this girl was attracted to me because she would always say hi and she asked me to hang out with her at school. Eventually I get a number lol. About three weeks later I get the balls to ask her out. I'm like so are you busy Friday and she says yes I'm hanging out with my best friend. I think I'm entering too far in tothe friendzone now because nothing sexual is happening between us when we hang out at school. I haven't broken the touch barrier and the only flirting I've did was teasing. She doesn't mind when I stand close to her, and we'll walk together in the hallway. My issue is I think she's friendzoned like every guy because I don't know if she's ever had a boyfriend and she's always around her female friends. She's one of those rich girly girls, so we're talking on different levels than like a promiscuous girl. I"m not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I would say I'm around a 7 and I'm pretty masculine. Is there anything I can do. This is my first girl because I've been shy lol. What's worse is people always ask if that's my gf when it's not.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Help I ****** with this girl(kind of long)
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NorwegianDJ
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So what are you gonna do dude?
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
----
Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
NorwegianDJ
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Dude, you're just looking for excuses. It's back to step one of grabbing your manhood and using it.JPlaya said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
trying2fit
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This same sh** is happening to me. Girl says hi, im just like wtf does that mean. anyways about ur problem. im guessing she likes u, and i think when u asked her out, she didn't get that u trying to ask her out.
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum