So I thought this girl was attracted to me because she would always say hi and she asked me to hang out with her at school. Eventually I get a number lol. About three weeks later I get the balls to ask her out. I'm like so are you busy Friday and she says yes I'm hanging out with my best friend. I think I'm entering too far in tothe friendzone now because nothing sexual is happening between us when we hang out at school. I haven't broken the touch barrier and the only flirting I've did was teasing. She doesn't mind when I stand close to her, and we'll walk together in the hallway. My issue is I think she's friendzoned like every guy because I don't know if she's ever had a boyfriend and she's always around her female friends. She's one of those rich girly girls, so we're talking on different levels than like a promiscuous girl. I"m not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I would say I'm around a 7 and I'm pretty masculine. Is there anything I can do. This is my first girl because I've been shy lol. What's worse is people always ask if that's my gf when it's not.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Help I ****** with this girl(kind of long)
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NorwegianDJ
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So what are you gonna do dude?
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
1. Grab yer balls
2. Pull out of mangina
3. ???
4. PROFIT
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Just go for her as you would with any other chick. Im starting to doubt friendzones.. Just desexualization.
Start doing all the things you need to do.
Start touching, not just a little.
Dont you dare go slow
Be more sexual.
Start talking about things that ACTUALLY INTEREST YOU.
Take the lead.
Have fun.
Dont waste time.
How's that for a 4 minute reply.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Yep, most definitely player. Just be natural, when you are with her, I bet your mind is like "Hold that hand!" or "Touch that arm!" but then your "what if this happens" mentality holds you back.JPlaya said:
Next time, do what you are trully feeling at that moment and you will be okay. When you follow your gut feeling, whether right or wrong, you will execute it with a James Bond type of confidence...Think Zen.
NorwegianDJ
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Dude, you're just looking for excuses. It's back to step one of grabbing your manhood and using it.JPlaya said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
trying2fit
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This same sh** is happening to me. Girl says hi, im just like wtf does that mean. anyways about ur problem. im guessing she likes u, and i think when u asked her out, she didn't get that u trying to ask her out.
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum
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like think about it. if a hot girl asked me, if i was busy on friday, and i had plans with unimportant friends, screw it im avaliable. hoe> bro lol
but its my opinion so yea...im saying shes into u. giit sum