"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've hooked up with 4 girls since mid August and 3 have lost interest and I feel like the last one is losing interest. I'll meet a girl at a party or something. Talk to her for a bit and if she stays, start using kino and stuff. They like it and I eventually get a hookup with them that night. I don't even know how to explain it. I in college, so that might be why it sucks lol. It's really hard to explain, but what do yall do after hooking up with a girl? Give me some steps.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What exactly do you consider a hook up ? Make out I wouldn't consider a hook up I've seen college sluts/bar stars make out with multiple guys in 1 night now if you have ****ed the girls same night high 5 yourself and go find more?.... And if all these broads are losing interest id assume your over texting and making yourself too available.
 
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It sounds like you're being too available. One of the worst things you can do in the beginning is being too predictable and available. Down the road in a relationship is a different story, but when trying to create attraction, you need indifferance. It's exciting for girls. We need more details for us to dissect this problem, but this is probably the reason.
 
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Sandow said:
It sounds like you're being too available. One of the worst things you can do in the beginning is being too predictable and available. Down the road in a relationship is a different story, but when trying to create attraction, you need indifferance. It's exciting for girls. We need more details for us to dissect this problem, but this is probably the reason.
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examples because I rarely text them, but I guess I might be. I see people constantly calling their girls and they come back all time lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ringleader41 said:
examples because I rarely text them, but I guess I might be. I see people constantly calling their girls and they come back all time lol
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why not follow in anti dumps steps and lose them and find girls that have a good IL in you already! Makes things easier. But contact them only monday - wednesday (if you have time!) and NC them all until either 1. They text you. or 2. its been more than two weeks.

Going ghost for a little really helps out a lot on the IL, they wonder where the hell you went and who you are doing ;)
 
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I'll read it, but I'm sick of NCing girls and I've lost every ounce of confidence. I can't really picture a girl liking me at all.
 
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