"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've hooked up with 4 girls since mid August and 3 have lost interest and I feel like the last one is losing interest. I'll meet a girl at a party or something. Talk to her for a bit and if she stays, start using kino and stuff. They like it and I eventually get a hookup with them that night. I don't even know how to explain it. I in college, so that might be why it sucks lol. It's really hard to explain, but what do yall do after hooking up with a girl? Give me some steps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What exactly do you consider a hook up ? Make out I wouldn't consider a hook up I've seen college sluts/bar stars make out with multiple guys in 1 night now if you have ****ed the girls same night high 5 yourself and go find more?.... And if all these broads are losing interest id assume your over texting and making yourself too available.
 
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It sounds like you're being too available. One of the worst things you can do in the beginning is being too predictable and available. Down the road in a relationship is a different story, but when trying to create attraction, you need indifferance. It's exciting for girls. We need more details for us to dissect this problem, but this is probably the reason.
 
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Sandow said:
It sounds like you're being too available. One of the worst things you can do in the beginning is being too predictable and available. Down the road in a relationship is a different story, but when trying to create attraction, you need indifferance. It's exciting for girls. We need more details for us to dissect this problem, but this is probably the reason.
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examples because I rarely text them, but I guess I might be. I see people constantly calling their girls and they come back all time lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ringleader41 said:
examples because I rarely text them, but I guess I might be. I see people constantly calling their girls and they come back all time lol
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why not follow in anti dumps steps and lose them and find girls that have a good IL in you already! Makes things easier. But contact them only monday - wednesday (if you have time!) and NC them all until either 1. They text you. or 2. its been more than two weeks.

Going ghost for a little really helps out a lot on the IL, they wonder where the hell you went and who you are doing ;)
 
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I'll read it, but I'm sick of NCing girls and I've lost every ounce of confidence. I can't really picture a girl liking me at all.
 
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