"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help I don't have a "SMILE"...
- Thread starter deltoro86
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Kevin Feng
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People always ask me what's wrong with me when I'm not interacting, anyways, this forces me to get into set and engage people, then I'll start making different facial expressions.
Plus, you're out in a night club, force a smile if you have to, I hate forcing it, I'd rather just feel organic about it but that means I need to be in set.
Always be in set, that will help your game and alleviate this problem.
-Kevin
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So fvcking true! Good body language is way underrated, and for me it comes naturally when I am in this inner state of happiness.daygameguy said:
Just a confident smile and getting caught looking have made girls approaching me and offering me their number without any work from me.
It must be one of the greatest feelings in the world, entering a club, feeling like a king, not caring what other people think of you and know you are in this happy state.
Too bad all the nights out arent like that
