"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help I don't have a "SMILE"...

deltoro86

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I have a smirk and a sort of a grin but not a smile. I just look like one of those devilish men kinda like "sawyer" from lost. The only time I smile is when I'm laughing or running/exercising.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kevin Feng

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I have the exact same problem, you can use this fact to your advantage, whenever I'm just standing around idly, my face is very neutral and I actually a little pissed off.

People always ask me what's wrong with me when I'm not interacting, anyways, this forces me to get into set and engage people, then I'll start making different facial expressions.

Plus, you're out in a night club, force a smile if you have to, I hate forcing it, I'd rather just feel organic about it but that means I need to be in set.

Always be in set, that will help your game and alleviate this problem.

-Kevin
 

djinhell

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urgh...what do you want people to say!?

of course you have a smile...its not something to analyse or fake!!

just be natural with it.

Dj In Hell
 

daygameguy

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You have a smile. But it will not come out unless you actually feel the happy state.

You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sanoj

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daygameguy said:
You have a smile. But it will not come out unless you actually feel the happy state.

You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
So fvcking true! Good body language is way underrated, and for me it comes naturally when I am in this inner state of happiness.

Just a confident smile and getting caught looking have made girls approaching me and offering me their number without any work from me.

It must be one of the greatest feelings in the world, entering a club, feeling like a king, not caring what other people think of you and know you are in this happy state.

Too bad all the nights out arent like that ;)
 
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