"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Help I don't have a "SMILE"...
- Thread starter deltoro86
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kevin Feng
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People always ask me what's wrong with me when I'm not interacting, anyways, this forces me to get into set and engage people, then I'll start making different facial expressions.
Plus, you're out in a night club, force a smile if you have to, I hate forcing it, I'd rather just feel organic about it but that means I need to be in set.
Always be in set, that will help your game and alleviate this problem.
-Kevin
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So fvcking true! Good body language is way underrated, and for me it comes naturally when I am in this inner state of happiness.daygameguy said:
Just a confident smile and getting caught looking have made girls approaching me and offering me their number without any work from me.
It must be one of the greatest feelings in the world, entering a club, feeling like a king, not caring what other people think of you and know you are in this happy state.
Too bad all the nights out arent like that
