youngmack
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Any more help guys?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HELP ! I cannot believe this !!
- Thread starter youngmack
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Because obviously no contact and talking to other girls isnt working since i have been doing this for over a YEAR now
JohnChops
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damn thats rough man. Big migtake number 1 was telling her how you felt because thats a no no . And i was in that situation ( not nearly as bad though) delete her number, do no contact, and just go keep yourself busy and find a new girl. Youll get over her soon enough. God luck !
irocknike23
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WTFyoungmack said:
did you not read anything I told you in my post??
Go back and re-read it. You are setting yourself up to have a very miserable 1-2 years(and yes that's how long it takes to recover when you are playing it stupid)
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
loveshogun
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Guys, Mantis already called it, this guys a troll. He started 4 threads about the exact same girl, exact same text in the first post.
Just forget about him.
Just forget about him.
DonGorgon
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i know how you feel we have all been there...and we will be there again..youngmack said:
Die Hard
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This guy is either a troll or his case is hopeless.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
youngmack
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My fault ya'll this sh*t just sucks for me,its killing me ...nothing is working..maybe im just a pathetic little b*tch, i cant sopt thinking of her,i cant get mad at her because i forgave her because im a religious person and we are taught that we should forgive... I guess i'll never get over her