youngmack
Master Don Juan
Any more help guys?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
HELP ! I cannot believe this !!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Because obviously no contact and talking to other girls isnt working since i have been doing this for over a YEAR now
JohnChops
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damn thats rough man. Big migtake number 1 was telling her how you felt because thats a no no . And i was in that situation ( not nearly as bad though) delete her number, do no contact, and just go keep yourself busy and find a new girl. Youll get over her soon enough. God luck !
irocknike23
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WTFyoungmack said:
did you not read anything I told you in my post??
Go back and re-read it. You are setting yourself up to have a very miserable 1-2 years(and yes that's how long it takes to recover when you are playing it stupid)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
loveshogun
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Guys, Mantis already called it, this guys a troll. He started 4 threads about the exact same girl, exact same text in the first post.
Just forget about him.
Just forget about him.
DonGorgon
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i know how you feel we have all been there...and we will be there again..youngmack said:
Die Hard
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This guy is either a troll or his case is hopeless.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
youngmack
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My fault ya'll this sh*t just sucks for me,its killing me ...nothing is working..maybe im just a pathetic little b*tch, i cant sopt thinking of her,i cant get mad at her because i forgave her because im a religious person and we are taught that we should forgive... I guess i'll never get over her