youngmack
Master Don Juan
Any more help guys?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
HELP ! I cannot believe this !!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Because obviously no contact and talking to other girls isnt working since i have been doing this for over a YEAR now
JohnChops
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damn thats rough man. Big migtake number 1 was telling her how you felt because thats a no no . And i was in that situation ( not nearly as bad though) delete her number, do no contact, and just go keep yourself busy and find a new girl. Youll get over her soon enough. God luck !
irocknike23
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WTFyoungmack said:
did you not read anything I told you in my post??
Go back and re-read it. You are setting yourself up to have a very miserable 1-2 years(and yes that's how long it takes to recover when you are playing it stupid)
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
loveshogun
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Guys, Mantis already called it, this guys a troll. He started 4 threads about the exact same girl, exact same text in the first post.
Just forget about him.
Just forget about him.
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i know how you feel we have all been there...and we will be there again..youngmack said:
Die Hard
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This guy is either a troll or his case is hopeless.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
I wrote him some lengthy posts in one of the other 4 threads (seriously, why doesn't an admin warn him? It's okay to start 4 of the same threads with the exact same opening post???). He told me he "got" it but still he created a new thread and tells us he is clueless...
Seriously, I don't think he's a troll. He's just a 16 year kid... They can be VERYstupid and ignorant... I've been struggling with oneitis for a year as well when I was his age. Thinking back, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to understand or follow up any of the advice on this forum either...
Some people who want to learn how to swim, need to be thrown in the deep water and find out themselves how to do it. Explaining it to them doesn't work... Same thing applies to this kid. So don't waste your time, is what I advice to the other posters.
youngmack
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My fault ya'll this sh*t just sucks for me,its killing me ...nothing is working..maybe im just a pathetic little b*tch, i cant sopt thinking of her,i cant get mad at her because i forgave her because im a religious person and we are taught that we should forgive... I guess i'll never get over her