"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help: How should I go about this???

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Basically, after the second date she tells me that she is not adept at dating b/c she feels too much pressure and would prefer to hangout since we are getting to know each other. I played it cool and displayed that I was un-phased. Here is where the tricky part starts...

Didn't contact her for a week but when I did she instantly responded. I told her that my last message was intended to be sarcastic and not rude. She thought I was angry and assumed I needed space based on my message. I told her that was not the case and asked her if she needed space and she replied "no lol." So we are set to hangout this week. Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not? Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?

Here is a thread I created about our first few dates: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=181755
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
 
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Tiguere said:
step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
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She seems so reserved n quiet, however, she did drink from the same liquor glass cup as me last time n i read this is an indication that she may want to kiss...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mixedlinks said:
I'm assuming no one is interested in sharing their views...
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It's not really a compelling situation.

You'll meet up with this girl again and see where things stand. What else is there to say? This is date/hang-out #3. Either things progress or they don't.

Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not
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Does it matter? You already agreed to meet up with her.

Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?
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No. You should not have fun. You should panic.

Now do you see why your thread got ignored?

Take her out. See if she responds well to flirting. See if she responds well to touching. See if she responds to a kiss. This is not a new situation in the world of dating.
 
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