"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help: How should I go about this???

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Basically, after the second date she tells me that she is not adept at dating b/c she feels too much pressure and would prefer to hangout since we are getting to know each other. I played it cool and displayed that I was un-phased. Here is where the tricky part starts...

Didn't contact her for a week but when I did she instantly responded. I told her that my last message was intended to be sarcastic and not rude. She thought I was angry and assumed I needed space based on my message. I told her that was not the case and asked her if she needed space and she replied "no lol." So we are set to hangout this week. Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not? Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?

Here is a thread I created about our first few dates: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=181755
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
 
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Tiguere said:
step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
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She seems so reserved n quiet, however, she did drink from the same liquor glass cup as me last time n i read this is an indication that she may want to kiss...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mixedlinks said:
I'm assuming no one is interested in sharing their views...
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It's not really a compelling situation.

You'll meet up with this girl again and see where things stand. What else is there to say? This is date/hang-out #3. Either things progress or they don't.

Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not
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Does it matter? You already agreed to meet up with her.

Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?
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No. You should not have fun. You should panic.

Now do you see why your thread got ignored?

Take her out. See if she responds well to flirting. See if she responds well to touching. See if she responds to a kiss. This is not a new situation in the world of dating.
 
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