"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help: How should I go about this???

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Basically, after the second date she tells me that she is not adept at dating b/c she feels too much pressure and would prefer to hangout since we are getting to know each other. I played it cool and displayed that I was un-phased. Here is where the tricky part starts...

Didn't contact her for a week but when I did she instantly responded. I told her that my last message was intended to be sarcastic and not rude. She thought I was angry and assumed I needed space based on my message. I told her that was not the case and asked her if she needed space and she replied "no lol." So we are set to hangout this week. Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not? Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?

Here is a thread I created about our first few dates: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=181755
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
 
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Tiguere said:
step up your attraction game level. she is giving you another chance. this time go for it.
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She seems so reserved n quiet, however, she did drink from the same liquor glass cup as me last time n i read this is an indication that she may want to kiss...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mixedlinks said:
I'm assuming no one is interested in sharing their views...
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It's not really a compelling situation.

You'll meet up with this girl again and see where things stand. What else is there to say? This is date/hang-out #3. Either things progress or they don't.

Do you think I am pursuing something I should or should not
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Does it matter? You already agreed to meet up with her.

Or should I just have fun and not think too much about outcomes or over analyze what someone may be feeling?
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No. You should not have fun. You should panic.

Now do you see why your thread got ignored?

Take her out. See if she responds well to flirting. See if she responds well to touching. See if she responds to a kiss. This is not a new situation in the world of dating.
 
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