"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Basically i come up with a conversation opener this is how it goes:

My name is 'blah blah, i notice you across the room, and i felt i should come over and introduce myself. I ask her " whats your name", give her a compliment on something like her dress or hair for example...


>>> the problem is that, i dont know what to say afterwards...like the questions i should follow up with next. (ask her question after question after question)

what questions would you recommend?, after giving her a compliment

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Something from these:

"so...what classes do you have today/what have you just have", try to find something in common, for example, "Oh I have that tutor too and he/she's an absolute nightmare".


Do you have any exams coming up, if so: "Hows the revision going, i'm finding it really hard to work with the weather being so distracting" OR "What subjects are you studying".


Alternatively....find something about her and comment on it and ask her the story behind it..."nice bracelet/necklace...do you have matching ear-rings" - this one is more of an opener though.


To ask her out: "what are your plans for this weekend, I hear the weather is good, we should go for a coffee/lunch" or if she mentions that something is difficult in her work suggest that you hang out and go through it.

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Remember, if she has a big purse. Be like "Wow, that's a big purse. Do you have a poodle hidden in there?" That would easily break the tension after you introduce yourself.
 
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