Help! Help!! Help!!

[cesar]

Basically i come up with a conversation opener this is how it goes:

My name is 'blah blah, i notice you across the room, and i felt i should come over and introduce myself. I ask her " whats your name", give her a compliment on something like her dress or hair for example...


>>> the problem is that, i dont know what to say afterwards...like the questions i should follow up with next. (ask her question after question after question)

what questions would you recommend?, after giving her a compliment

(EITHER DAY OR NIGHT GAME) NOT IN A HIGH SCHOOL SITUATION

 

[rjames407]

Something from these:

"so...what classes do you have today/what have you just have", try to find something in common, for example, "Oh I have that tutor too and he/she's an absolute nightmare".


Do you have any exams coming up, if so: "Hows the revision going, i'm finding it really hard to work with the weather being so distracting" OR "What subjects are you studying".


Alternatively....find something about her and comment on it and ask her the story behind it..."nice bracelet/necklace...do you have matching ear-rings" - this one is more of an opener though.


To ask her out: "what are your plans for this weekend, I hear the weather is good, we should go for a coffee/lunch" or if she mentions that something is difficult in her work suggest that you hang out and go through it.

Good luck

 

[The Frustrated Chump]

Remember, if she has a big purse. Be like "Wow, that's a big purse. Do you have a poodle hidden in there?" That would easily break the tension after you introduce yourself.