"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cesar

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Basically i come up with a conversation opener this is how it goes:

My name is 'blah blah, i notice you across the room, and i felt i should come over and introduce myself. I ask her " whats your name", give her a compliment on something like her dress or hair for example...


>>> the problem is that, i dont know what to say afterwards...like the questions i should follow up with next. (ask her question after question after question)

what questions would you recommend?, after giving her a compliment

(EITHER DAY OR NIGHT GAME) NOT IN A HIGH SCHOOL SITUATION
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something from these:

"so...what classes do you have today/what have you just have", try to find something in common, for example, "Oh I have that tutor too and he/she's an absolute nightmare".


Do you have any exams coming up, if so: "Hows the revision going, i'm finding it really hard to work with the weather being so distracting" OR "What subjects are you studying".


Alternatively....find something about her and comment on it and ask her the story behind it..."nice bracelet/necklace...do you have matching ear-rings" - this one is more of an opener though.


To ask her out: "what are your plans for this weekend, I hear the weather is good, we should go for a coffee/lunch" or if she mentions that something is difficult in her work suggest that you hang out and go through it.

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Remember, if she has a big purse. Be like "Wow, that's a big purse. Do you have a poodle hidden in there?" That would easily break the tension after you introduce yourself.
 
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