"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys I've got a dilemma, please opinions needed.

I've text a girl am involved with today, a light and fun text, I am seeing her tomorrow night. She replied with

"Today is a very sad day for me, all my efforts and hopes disappeared, no one knows and no one understands... Maybe god want me to suffer this way, want me to punish myself. Don't worry about all I've just said. I hope I will be more happy seeing you tomorrow, I am always happy around you"

What should I say back, give my shoulder? Ignore her text and see her tomorrow. Stay away from her bad time and only associate with fun time?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Make sure she doesn't uses you as a emotional tampon. Make sure you go with a mind set tommorow and divert her mood according to you.
 
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YAboi said:
Say 'will be great to see you!''
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Great reply, cheers.

thanks for the help guys, I don't want to be use as an emotional tampon either. I have no idea what it's about, should I bring it up at some point tomorrow? like after sex? Or ignore it all together. What if she brings it up and want to confide in me?

In my AFC day I'd have been a white knight! But I am different now, wiser; how best to approach this?
 
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I read Ross jefferies books, he mentions that you should go out with an objective in mind, which he calls as seducers state of mind. You will lead the conversation on how you want it to be. than the chick will follow. Don't bring the topic or her sad day, if she brings talk a little and move to next topic.

Her response was " I am always happy around you"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Manipulate her emotions through your Energy funnels. You'll have to be very superficially happy to do this (SMILE, LAUGH, JOKE). Know why charismatic people make depressed people feel that little bit better? They are happy, they are transfering their happiness and energy (No i'm not a hippy) through energy funnels, yes a real term used in the Psychological communties.

Do NOT let the conversation stare into a grim one, that will kill this effect completely and will probabley (spelling) bring back her saddness.

I guess role-playing is very good for these types of situations (find out why shes sad). Money issues? 50/50 chance depending on her personality "I'm going to win Lotto this week! We should ________". etc etc; but the added risk of it will bring back her sadness and also kill the effect, but can bring hope, and as humans we cling onto hope. Hope can be the biggest source of happiness so it can amplify the effect to an extreme level.

You might not get laid since this isn't a sexual tool, but will definatly boost your image.
 
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