"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys I've got a dilemma, please opinions needed.

I've text a girl am involved with today, a light and fun text, I am seeing her tomorrow night. She replied with

"Today is a very sad day for me, all my efforts and hopes disappeared, no one knows and no one understands... Maybe god want me to suffer this way, want me to punish myself. Don't worry about all I've just said. I hope I will be more happy seeing you tomorrow, I am always happy around you"

What should I say back, give my shoulder? Ignore her text and see her tomorrow. Stay away from her bad time and only associate with fun time?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make sure she doesn't uses you as a emotional tampon. Make sure you go with a mind set tommorow and divert her mood according to you.
 
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YAboi said:
Say 'will be great to see you!''
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Great reply, cheers.

thanks for the help guys, I don't want to be use as an emotional tampon either. I have no idea what it's about, should I bring it up at some point tomorrow? like after sex? Or ignore it all together. What if she brings it up and want to confide in me?

In my AFC day I'd have been a white knight! But I am different now, wiser; how best to approach this?
 
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I read Ross jefferies books, he mentions that you should go out with an objective in mind, which he calls as seducers state of mind. You will lead the conversation on how you want it to be. than the chick will follow. Don't bring the topic or her sad day, if she brings talk a little and move to next topic.

Her response was " I am always happy around you"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Manipulate her emotions through your Energy funnels. You'll have to be very superficially happy to do this (SMILE, LAUGH, JOKE). Know why charismatic people make depressed people feel that little bit better? They are happy, they are transfering their happiness and energy (No i'm not a hippy) through energy funnels, yes a real term used in the Psychological communties.

Do NOT let the conversation stare into a grim one, that will kill this effect completely and will probabley (spelling) bring back her saddness.

I guess role-playing is very good for these types of situations (find out why shes sad). Money issues? 50/50 chance depending on her personality "I'm going to win Lotto this week! We should ________". etc etc; but the added risk of it will bring back her sadness and also kill the effect, but can bring hope, and as humans we cling onto hope. Hope can be the biggest source of happiness so it can amplify the effect to an extreme level.

You might not get laid since this isn't a sexual tool, but will definatly boost your image.
 
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